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Sex or Sexual Stuff: What's the Big Deal?


I charge you, do not stir up or awaken love until the appropriate time.

Song of Solomon 8:4 CSB


Sex or Sexual Stuff. What's the big deal?

Depends on whether you want a strong marriage in the future. Sexual intimacy was created to deepen the relationship between a husband and wife.

When you do sexual things, you are connection with a guy in the deepest parts of your heart that are meant to be protected until you find your forever man.

Think about it. How could damaging areas meant for your husband hurt your marriage in the future? You create a heart connection and then bust it apart...again and again and again.

Reflection: Write a letter to yourself. Share your hopes and dreams for your future family. In the letter acknowledge and talk about how the decisions you make today will affect the family of your future. Commit to protect your future family. Seal it in an envelope and tuck it away.


Did you already cross the line? Don't worry. God will help you move forward.

  • Talk to God about what happened. Ask him to help you work through it and to keep you from crossing the line again.

  • You are not ruined. God is more powerful than any mistake you can make.

  • The key is not to keep repeating the same mistake. The deeper the wound, the longer it will take to heal.

 

Prayer

Father God, I want a strong marriage and a happy family someday. You know how to make a good family. Please lead me, so that I make decisions that lead me to that family. You already know who you want me to marry. I want that too because you know what will work. Help me to protect my heart and love myself enough not to allow guys to use me as a sexual object. I know I need your help God. Thanks for always being there. In Jesus Name, Amen.

 

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