Week 3: Live Worthy- Just A Girl Who Loves Jesus Bible Study
- Kelly Kirstein
- Oct 23, 2024
- 7 min read
Updated: Jan 22
Learn to Live Worthy of Your Calling
Do you want to be filled with light and experience wholeness? Let's talk about holy living and the importance of sanctification
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Let's Do This Together: pgs. 20-29
Despite the Bible containing a long list of verses about sanctification most of Christians don't know what it means. When you hear the phrase called to holy living, it might stir up resistance inside you.
If I were going to stereotype someone living a holy lifestyle, I would probably put up a picture of a nun. I mean no disrespect to the women who have given their lives to be nuns.
Another basic assumption could also be ridged or judgmental. The reality is that couldn't be farther from the truth. The stereotype is more a strict religious ritual practice more than what the New Testament teaches about living as a means of connection to God.
When I googled holy living, seeing the images that came up, I realized the internet had a better picture of holy living than the negative stereotype. It showed people with their hands up in surrender, the Bible, the cross, light, imagery of church, and other things I associate with connecting with the spirit of God.
Rule following is tedious and terrible because it isn't about connecting with Jesus. Sadly, most believers don't invest the time and effort to understand how to do that.
What the Bible Explains about Holiness:
Hebrews 12:14 explains that holiness allows us to see the Lord. Without holiness no one will see the Lord.
Romans 6:22 Once you are set free from sin, God becomes your authority. The benefit you reap leads to holiness and the result is eternal life.
Hebrews 12:10 God disciplines us that we may share in his holiness.
2 Corinthians 7:1 Sin contaminates us, but we can purify ourselves body and spirit, perfecting holiness out of reverence for God.
Romans 6:19 we are called to offer ourselves as slaves to righteousness leading to holiness.
Holy Living Opens Your Eyes to the Calling on Your Lives
Each of us has a unique calling, a purpose that gives our lives meaning and direction. Living worthy of this calling means you make choices that lines up with who God created you to be.
Instead, it is about aligning our thoughts and actions with what Christ would say about us to help . It’s about recognizing God’s design for our lives and going after it through letting go of things that don't belong to you.
Have you ever gazed into someone's eyes and caught a glimpse of their heart? There are a variety of reason people have darkness in their eyes. Many times it wasn't their fault.
Yet, when they choose to partner with the hurt or anger, allowing it to lead their lives, it can lead them to do really mean things. That's when hurt people hurt other people.
As a believer in Christ you have to be diligent to do the work to bring everything before Jesus to allow him to help you to know what to keep and what to let go of.
The definition of Holy Living is letting go of anything that didn't come from Jesus or doesn't line up with his kingdom.
Galatians 2:20 explains that we have been crucified with Christ. We are called to righteousness comes through him.
Anything outside of God brings darkness, sin, & ruin into our lives.
Make Space to Think About How You See Yourself
Let's circle back to the idea that you need to the idea that your thoughts about yourself need to align with God's thoughts about you. Why does that matter?
If you have a hard time saying something positive about yourself, Houston we have a problem!
A negative self-perception means you have some work to do. It's like having cotton in your ears and blinders over your eyes.
God's intentions and plans for you were established even before your birth (Psalm 139:16). To fully embrace who He designed you to be, your heart must align with His and discover the gifts and passions he has put within you.
It's easy to let past experiences or others' opinions shape your identity. However, for those who are part of the Kingdom of God, only God has the authority to define who you are. It's the only safe place to see yourself.
Clinging to negative thoughts and actions is like tainting a bottle of purified water with toilet water; it will adversely affect your daily life if you allow anything that contradicts God's view of you.
By choosing Christ and surrendering everything to God, spiritual cleansing and restoration to wholeness begin. In other words, through sanctification you can live in a way that allows you to see and hear God.
Additional Notes & Thoughts: pg. 29
Read two of the scriptures below that call believers to holy living.
How do you think holy living could help you feel whole?
Take a few a few moments to work through any negative feelings you may have about holy living.
I urge you to live a life worthy of the calling you have received. (Ephesians 4:1 NIV)
It is because of him that you are in Christ Jesus, who has become for us wisdom from God—that is, our righteousness, holiness and redemption. (1 Corinthians 1:30 NIV)
For God did not call us to be impure, but to live a holy life. (1 Thessalonians 4:7 NIV)
encouraging, comforting and urging you to live lives worthy of God, who calls you into his kingdom and glory. (1 Thessalonians 2:12 NIV)
Mental Health Minute: Living Worthy. pgs. 80-81
Use these questions to reflect on how God is shaping you, one small choice at a time.
Today, where did I notice God gently nudging me toward a better choice rather than forcing me to be perfect?
Was there a moment when I paused before reacting, speaking, or scrolling? What helped me pause?
What is one thought, habit, or attitude God might be slowly working on in me right now?
Did I choose what felt right in the moment, or what honored God in the long run? How did that choice affect my peace?
Where did I experience tension between my flesh (what I wanted) and my spirit (what God wanted)? What did I learn from that moment?
How did God’s grace show up today, even if I didn’t get everything right?
What is one small step of obedience I took today that I might normally overlook?
Did I talk to God honestly about my struggles, or did I try to handle them alone?
How is my heart becoming softer, more aware, or more responsive to God compared to the past?
If sanctification is a process, not a performance, how does that change the way I see today’s mistakes or victories?
Leader Discussion Prompts: Week 3- Living Worthy
Opening Question (Warm-Up)
• When you hear the phrase “live worthy of your calling,” what emotions come up, pressure, curiosity, confusion, motivation? Why do you think that is?
Living Worthy Starts With Identity
Key Scripture: (Ephesians 4:1)
• Who or what has had the biggest influence on the way you see yourself?
• Are there thoughts you repeat about yourself that feel harsh, critical, or discouraging?
• How can we tell the difference between God’s voice and other voices (including our own)?
• What would it look like to hand a negative thought about yourself to Jesus instead of believing it?
Leader Tip: Remind the group that God may use people to encourage us, but anything that contradicts His truth does not get to stay.
Letting Go of What No Longer Defines You
Key Scripture: (Galatians 2:20)
• Why do you think it’s hard to let go of past mistakes or painful experiences, even when we know God forgives us?
• Is there a moment from your past that still shapes how you see yourself today?
• What do you think it means that your past happened but doesn’t define you?
• How might surrendering pain to Jesus bring healing instead of letting it stay buried?
Reflection Option (Quiet Moment): Invite girls to silently name one memory, label, or lie they want to give to Jesus.
Exchanging Pain for Inheritance
Key Scriptures: Proverbs 15:6, 1 Corinthians 1:30
• When you hear the word inheritance, what comes to mind?
• Do you ever feel like you’re missing out on something God promises? Why or why not?• Why do you think spending time with God is necessary to understand what He’s given us?
• What would it look like to ask Jesus for a deeper desire to know Him, not just know about Him?
Leader Prompt: Encourage girls to think about relationship, not performance, access comes through closeness.
Holiness and Feeling Better on the Inside
Key Scripture: 1 Peter 1:15
• Do you think holiness sounds restrictive or freeing? What makes you feel that way?
• Where in your life do you wish things felt lighter, calmer, or healthier?
• What is one small change that could help your thoughts or actions line up more with Jesus?
• How do you think God’s light affects your emotions, thoughts, and decisions?
Called to Holy Living—Not Perfection
Key Scriptures: 1 Thessalonians 4:7; 1 Thessalonians 2:12
• Can you think of someone who seems genuinely close to Jesus? What stands out about them?
• Do you believe a holy life is possible for you right now or does it feel out of reach?
• What barriers make holiness feel hard (fear, comparison, shame, habits, pressure)?
• How might holiness look different if it’s about connection with Jesus instead of being a “good girl”?
Closing Reflection or Prayer Prompt
• What is one unholy thought, habit, or wound you feel ready to surrender to Jesus this week?
• How can the group support one another as we learn to live worthy of the calling God has given us?
Optional Closing Prayer: “Jesus, help us release what doesn’t belong and receive what You’ve already given. Teach us how to live holy, not out of pressure, but out of love. Amen.”
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